Sir Top & slave bonnie

Sir Top, SE Master 2007, is a leather dyke that has been active in the lifestyle since 1999 as a Dominant and Master. She was presented the “Leather Archives & Museum President’s Award 2010”, Pantheon “Couple of the Year Award 2010” (with her slave, bonnie) and the "Jack Stice Community Award 2009”. Sir Top has been in a very successful 24/7 M/s relationship with her collared slave, bonnie, since 2002. Sir Top loves educating and feels that her title year provided her with much needed growth that now allows her to pay it forward in her teachings. Sir Top resides in central FL and was a nurse on the heart team. She is now retired from her field although she still has a strong precision for needles, creative needle play, and decorative cuttings.

Sir Top is co-owner of Beyond Leather, Top’s Boot Camp, the International Pony Play Championship and the International Power Exchange contest. She is also the director for F.L.U.I.D. Sir Top and her slave bonnie raised $6k for the renovation of the women’s restroom at the Leather Archives and Museum, is a member of the LA&M, NLA-I, NCSF and NLA-CFL. Sir Top has presented at TESfest, Kinky Kollege, Black Rose, SPLF, SELF, GD2, Floating World, GLLA, IMsL, Beyond Leather, Sinsations in Leather, DomCon, APEX Summer Bash, Master/slave Conference, COPE, Beyond the Edge and Thunder in the Mountains. Sir Top also judges International contests and has been an emcee since 2008.

slave bonnie, SE slave 2007 was presented with the “Leather Archives & Museum President’s Award 2010”, Pantheon “Couple of the Year Award 2010” with her Master, Sir Top and the "Jack Stice Community Award 2009”. She is a femme gay female slave, was born and raised on Long Island, NY and has been living in FL since 1988. Slave bonnie has been part of the lifestyle since the late 1970’s (for kinky fun) and found her place as a slave since 2002 with Sir Top. Today she has a successful private practice as a neuromuscular specialist in pain management.

Slave bonnie is co-owner of Beyond Leather, the International Pony Play Championship and the International Power Exchange contest. she helped raised $6k for the women’s restroom at the Leather Archives and Museum with Sir Top and is a member of NLA-I, NCSF and LA&M. slave bonnie has presented at Black Rose, TESfest, Beyond Leather, GD2, SPLF, SELF, Floating World, IMsL, Sinsations in Leather, DomCon, Thunder in the Mountains, Kinky Kollege, APEX Summer Bash, Master/slave Conference, Great Lakes and many more as well as judges International contests.

Outside YOUR Comfort Zone

This seminar on the nature and dynamic of fear in the scene will prove to be very exciting as Sir Top and slave bonnie explore the most common types of fear and the reasons that people are prone to have fear to begin with. With participation from the audience some common fears will be faced by volunteers who suffer from them. If you are afraid of needles, terrified by scalpels, tight places, or any other things that go “bump in the night,” we encourage you to bring such fears forward so that Sir Top and slave bonnie can give you tips on facing them in the future. Let’s see how far Sir Top can push your limits. She will discuss some common points of discomfort and, more importantly, will encourage audience participation to help tackle some of those situations. Bring your subs to this class to see just how much creativity and problem resolution they can endure. Sir Top and bonnie will also provide some solutions to help people to remain in situations in which they are uncomfortable so that they are able to ultimately work through them. If you have ever wanted to explore stepping outside your comfort zone, this is a seminar you won’t want to miss.

Giving and Receiving Service

Even though many of us in the scene may take on the roles of Master/slave, sometimes when life is hectic it may become difficult to stay in character and to allow the defined role dynamics to function as we want them to. Time or old habits often make us want to do too much for ourselves, and we actually short change each other by not allowing the slaves to give their best service or the Masters to properly dominate and administer as their hearts desire. In this class Top and bonnie will go over methods to help us slow down and set aside time to cherish gifts we bring to each other in the functioning of our power exchange. They will also talk about Masters that may be so self sufficient or chivalrous that they are not fully aware of how they are actually hindering the relationship by not allowing their slaves to serve them adequately (and vice versa). They will also suggest methods in which the slave can make it easier for the Master to accept service and will demonstrate simple exercises that allow us to form habits which will make our relationships healthier and help them to flourish instead of diminish. If you are in a Master/slave relationship or are thinking of entering one, this is a class that will prove to be of maximal benefit to you.