Lolita Wolf

Lolita Wolf discovered the BDSM scene back in the late 80's when "online" meant being on the phone sex lines. She is an activist who defends the sexual freedom for all consenting adults, spreads the word about BDSM, sex and poly, and helps the community grow and flourish. Yet, her goal remains "to have fun." Lolita has taught hundreds of classes for organizations and events across the country, including South Plains Leatherfest, Thunder in the Mountains, Dark Odyssey, Kinkfest, Shibaricon and many others. She is well-known for a fun and entertaining style that packs a lot of information into a short class. Lolita is an Emeritus Board Member of of both TES and Leather Leadership Conference. She is a former Chair of Lesbian Sex Mafia and was an honorary member of GMSMA. She is active with National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, Leather Pride Night and Open Love NY. This year she is honored to be giving the keynote at IMsL and judging IML Her writing has appeared in On Our Backs, Prometheus and Rachel Kramer Bussel's Lust Chronicles. She has authored two books : Spanking and CBT in a Nutshell and is featured in the Details of Flogging DVD. She also has a chapter in Tristan Taormino's The Ultimate Guide To kink. She has also appeared in the New York Times One in 8 Million series: http://is.gd/RIbuhN. Her website can be found at http://leatheryenta.com/

Caning – from “Ah!” to “Zowie!!!” 

In the Victorian era and the British school system, caning was the traditional method of severe punishment. This fact opens up all the doors for good role play opportunities in a BDSM scene. Canes are very scary, and even just the threat of being caned can terrify your bottom. But caning can be sensuous as well and, with finesse, you can have your partners begging for more. Some bottoms can actually cum from being caned. In this seminar Lolita will discuss the selection of a good cane, the care of canes in general, and some very interesting and effectivetechniques for their implementation in role play and ritual. 

Relationships from Scratch 

Death to all -isms!!! In our very diverse community, an off-the-rack relationship dynamic can be a virtual recipe for disaster. Rather than conform to someone else’s idea of how love and happiness ought to be shared, Lolita will show us how to learn to communicate our unique and special needs and wants with those of our partner(s)! By choosing to create our own rules together, we can break free of the cookie-cutter molds that seems to shackle our imaginations as hostage, and tailor make our lives and relationships so they actually work the way WE need and want them to work!!! This is a first of its kind seminar from Lolita that you won’t want t